Never Fear To seek Professional help within your Marriage!

Sometimes no matter what we try within our relationship/marriage nothing seems to work, sometimes seeking an outside opinion can help. Especially if your married as seeking professional help can help save marriages. This must be looked at if your arguments have deterred you onto the verge of breakup. If kids are involved this is something both parties would more then likely want to be avoided.

Why not seek advice from a friend?

Sometimes seeking advice from a friend can be worse, yes sometimes its good to get another opinion on the situation but friends can sometimes be biased to the person there closets to within the marriage. What about a neutral friend? Neutral friends can be helpful especially within a relationship, a neutral prospective from the outside can sometimes lead to small problems being looked at and given solutions and that will always help.

Asking a neutral friends advice for a marriage can be different, marriages have a lot more to lose then a relationship, so situations within a marriage should be treated with more caution. Think about it, marriage is a sacred event where not just two people unite but family and friends as well. Also you will most probably be living together and have children involved. Seeking professional help may not seem so bad now right.

Seeking professional help is expensive.

I admit, the prices to see a marriage counsellor, anyone that can give help, guidance or support would expect to be paid. First come to grips that the years and years of training they went through, throughout there lives are for moments like this, to help people save their marriages. Just think right, you want to be paid the right amount of money for your profession right. Now it's time to think about all the money you can save if your marriage is successfully saved. No money spent on moving out to new properties, lawyers and taking time off work.

Never be afraid to seek professional help to save your marriage. We will be posting links to websites were you will be able to get professional help.

Dating Tips/Advice

Dating has changed within the 21st century, people are even more sceptical to go out on dates when they have free time because of this.

Whats an ideal date for u?

We all have hopes and dreams of the ideal perfect date coming true,  88% of the time, this will not happen on the first date. This doesn't mean you should be put off. Bear in mind we all have had that bad experience on a first date we would definitely like to forget. This shouldn't put you in a bad state of mind as the world population is over 7.125 billion which indicates if you keep trying you will eventually find the right person!

This topic will be more aimed at men, considering you will be the one offering to take the lady you like out!

Through market research we are able to give you some tips/pointers:
First, before you offer to take her out, try and get to know her. find out her likes and dislikes, which is paramount as you wouldn't want to end up doing, or even saying something she doesn't like, especially as you are trying to impress her! If your lucky you may find out where her dream place is to go, if it's out of your price range a little improvisation can often score you points.

Ladies: don't just go on a date for the sake of it. You can often be wasting each others times if you do. A lot of women on the survey had no intention of being with their partners that they chose to go on a date with. Feedback we got was 'It was a date to pass the time.' If the guy has a slight chance of being with you, then fair enough, otherwise to go on a date because your bored can often end up hurting the guys feelings once he knows he was just being used.

Signs that show you may not be compatible


An awkward silence, this could mean that you don't have that much in common with each other.
Incompatible sense of humour: If you don't share the same sense of humour, then sometimes the persons jokes can be overwhelming, irritating and unfunny.
No eye Contact: If you do not make eye contact with each other this also could indicate that there is no physical attraction. This may not be such a big deal as long-lasting relationships and marriages have overcome this.

Compatibility

Try to find out your compatibility levels before going out on a date, this can sometimes stop upsets. If you do not have a lot of things in common this can big a factor into dates having awkward silences and being unsuccessful. However, If you can grow together and develop things you like, brilliant.

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Relationship Quizzes

How much do you and your partner know of each other?!

Even knowing the nitty gritty parts of your partners personality is very helpful to maintain a long relationship, through our recent survey, couples who didn't hide anything from each other tended to have longer lasting relationships which then led to marriage.

We would like you to take this quiz and answer the following questions.

Whats your partners favourite movie?!

What does your partner hate/dislike the most? 'Vague, simplify if need be'

Whats your partners favourite colour?

Your partners favourite place?

Your partners hobbies?

Your partners goals in life?

Your partners favourite T.V shows?

Where does your partner see themselves in 3 years time?

Whats your partners favourite cuisine?

You may think these questions are petty, but you would be surprised by the amount of couples that wanted to stay together, in long term relationships and couldn't answer these questions. Stay tuned for updates…

Why do women/men cheat?

Why do people cheat?


It's often a myth of a question. After careful study, the results of why people cheat or have affairs are not as surprising as one may think.

It's hard enough for the individuals to admit that they have cheated or committed an affair as the case is someone what embarrassing to some that your partner would seek sexual intimacy with another person outside the relationship. The reasons for both genders had similarities but were different, we will go over a few!

Why Do Women Cheat?!

There were two underlining reasons that seem to have stood out, the main reason was that women felt if they lacked attention from there partners it would cause them to seek attention elsewhere, so much so it would lead into sexual activities with the third party that the female might not have anticipated it would turn out like that from the harmless flirting in the beginning. From the study we also noticed that the women were complaining about the men becoming complacent within the relationship. Saying it was more exciting in the beginning as men would do more to get into a relationship with them but not bother as much once there in a relationship, the question will are women asking for too much?! This is a topic we will cover at later date……

The second reason was women just wanting sex with different people while having the security of a boyfriend/husband! Even if the sex was good and they were getting everything they wanted from their partners they would still seek sex from other people. We haven't come for a solution for this yet as the obvious solution would be just to have sex with different people without being in a relationship. For majority the women still wanted to be in a relationship while having sex with other people.

Why do men Cheat?!
Women requested to see the results of this topic before we had collected all the data. Why do men cheat?! Men seem not to be able to control their sex drive as well as women, men would often lead astray after attention from other women. The term men are 'weak' were stated by a lot of women. The reply from men is that women are used to getting attention and men are not used to it so they tend to melt under the pressure of sexual attention from other women.

More men would openly admit to cheating quicker then the females who helped with the market research. Do not be honoured yet men, as we live in a world where men are hailed for how many women they sleep with and women are chastised if they sleep with a lot of men. The terminology phrase guys gave to this topic were 'if a key can open a lock it's a master lock, if the lock can be open by many keys. It's a bad key.' You will leave you to decide whether or not you agree with this term! As some of the religious women in the research did.

Outlining the above topics shows that women would mainly cheat to seek attention and men just like to conquer women, in broader terms.
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