Never Fear To seek Professional help within your Marriage!

Sometimes no matter what we try within our relationship/marriage nothing seems to work, sometimes seeking an outside opinion can help. Especially if your married as seeking professional help can help save marriages. This must be looked at if your arguments have deterred you onto the verge of breakup. If kids are involved this is something both parties would more then likely want to be avoided.

Why not seek advice from a friend?

Sometimes seeking advice from a friend can be worse, yes sometimes its good to get another opinion on the situation but friends can sometimes be biased to the person there closets to within the marriage. What about a neutral friend? Neutral friends can be helpful especially within a relationship, a neutral prospective from the outside can sometimes lead to small problems being looked at and given solutions and that will always help.

Asking a neutral friends advice for a marriage can be different, marriages have a lot more to lose then a relationship, so situations within a marriage should be treated with more caution. Think about it, marriage is a sacred event where not just two people unite but family and friends as well. Also you will most probably be living together and have children involved. Seeking professional help may not seem so bad now right.

Seeking professional help is expensive.

I admit, the prices to see a marriage counsellor, anyone that can give help, guidance or support would expect to be paid. First come to grips that the years and years of training they went through, throughout there lives are for moments like this, to help people save their marriages. Just think right, you want to be paid the right amount of money for your profession right. Now it's time to think about all the money you can save if your marriage is successfully saved. No money spent on moving out to new properties, lawyers and taking time off work.

Never be afraid to seek professional help to save your marriage. We will be posting links to websites were you will be able to get professional help.

Dating Tips/Advice

Dating has changed within the 21st century, people are even more sceptical to go out on dates when they have free time because of this.

Whats an ideal date for u?

We all have hopes and dreams of the ideal perfect date coming true,  88% of the time, this will not happen on the first date. This doesn't mean you should be put off. Bear in mind we all have had that bad experience on a first date we would definitely like to forget. This shouldn't put you in a bad state of mind as the world population is over 7.125 billion which indicates if you keep trying you will eventually find the right person!

This topic will be more aimed at men, considering you will be the one offering to take the lady you like out!

Through market research we are able to give you some tips/pointers:
First, before you offer to take her out, try and get to know her. find out her likes and dislikes, which is paramount as you wouldn't want to end up doing, or even saying something she doesn't like, especially as you are trying to impress her! If your lucky you may find out where her dream place is to go, if it's out of your price range a little improvisation can often score you points.

Ladies: don't just go on a date for the sake of it. You can often be wasting each others times if you do. A lot of women on the survey had no intention of being with their partners that they chose to go on a date with. Feedback we got was 'It was a date to pass the time.' If the guy has a slight chance of being with you, then fair enough, otherwise to go on a date because your bored can often end up hurting the guys feelings once he knows he was just being used.

Signs that show you may not be compatible


An awkward silence, this could mean that you don't have that much in common with each other.
Incompatible sense of humour: If you don't share the same sense of humour, then sometimes the persons jokes can be overwhelming, irritating and unfunny.
No eye Contact: If you do not make eye contact with each other this also could indicate that there is no physical attraction. This may not be such a big deal as long-lasting relationships and marriages have overcome this.

Compatibility

Try to find out your compatibility levels before going out on a date, this can sometimes stop upsets. If you do not have a lot of things in common this can big a factor into dates having awkward silences and being unsuccessful. However, If you can grow together and develop things you like, brilliant.

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Healthy Relationships!

Ways to Keep Your Relationship Healthy

How to keep a successful relationship is often a mystery to people. To the ignorant individual, a relationship would seem pretty self-explanatory, but there is so much more to it than just a title.Dates cost money, which are often paid for by the gentleman. In the 21st century men are luckier than in the past, as you can now find women who will actually put there hands in their in purses to take a guy out.
Through our market research rich men often had less problems when it came to dating women/relationships. We are not implying that women are gold-diggers, but a nice pair of shoes and an expensive meal tends to cheer up majority of women across the world. We are in an era of materialism, but a lot of women did often click the time over money box in our survey. Having his or her partner's time was a key factor in keeping a healthy relationship.

However, dates are important as they add the happy and fun factor, which is imperative in sustaining a long and healthy relationship. We don't mean the dates you go on before you both become an item, but the dates you go on once you become an item.

 

Trust.

Trusting someone is slowly becoming a myth in the 21st century. Memes on the globalised social sites do not help. The survey showed us that trust issues are even apparent in relationships when both individuals are over 30. Trust has to be earned. You may be thinking that this saying is overused and cliched, but if you think about it, the people who you trust in your life have earned it. The methods for earning trust are premature and too scattered in the market research to state the solution that worked best as yet. Until our team has researched this more, you will have to decide which method works best to gain each other's trust, as this is still paramount in sustaining a healthy relationship. Please look out for future posts on this topic.

Time.

Finding time for each other scored high in the survey for sustaining a healthy relationship. You may think that you're not obliged to find time for each other. We know how busy one another's schedules can be; just finding time for friends and family, especially for those who work long hours can be difficult, but it's of high importance that you both are willing to do this to make it work. As not finding time for each other tends to end up with one of you being led astray.